Thank you, Wade. Good point about physical attraction. Although it played no conscious part in my relationships with these three men, they could each be considered "good-looking.” As I wrote in Ride on a Rainbow, "How do unattractive people find a mate? I have wondered. Beauty is said to be in the eye of the beholder, so I guess each beholder must have a bias in his vision. Without that initial spark when you see someone who is beautiful, how can a fire start?"